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nambar 11 kya kaaran hai jisase aapako pyaar nahin mil paata?
mainne pahale charcha kee thee ki log jaadoo-tona kaise khojate hain. aaj mujhe yah bataane kee zaroorat hai ki kanekshan kaise the aur meediya ne mere kaam karane kee cheezon ko kis tarah badal diya.
bhaavana ka yah vichaar maanav jaati ke anubhavon ke samooh mein naya hai. isakee umr kareeb 170 saal hai. usase pahale, rishte vyavasthit ya ardh-sangathit hote the. is jodee se bhee badee vajah donon ka saath hona tha. unhen milakar kuchh banaana tha aur us viraasat ko apane bachchon ke lie chhodana tha jo aisa hee kar saken. is tarah aapako sadiyon kee prachurata - puraanee nakadee milatee hai.
dhyaan dene yogy baat yah hai ki unake parivaaron ne unhen ekajut kiya kyonki ve saamaany maargadarshak siddhaant saajha karate the. maargadarshak siddhaant vyaktiyon ko ek hee kism ya philm ko naapasand karate hain. jab aap vyavahaary hon, to ek-doosare ke prati jhukaav rakhana adhik aasaan hota hai. isee se pyaar badhata hai.
phir us vishvadrshtikon mein kuchh ghatit hua. 1819 mein jon keets naam ke ek vyakti ne la byootee vuman sens marsee naamak pustak kee rachana kee. angrejee mein, isaka arth hai: "da vandaraphul vuman vidaut pitee". jab isakee rachana huee to kisee ne is par dhyaan nahin diya. 1850 ke dashak ke dauraan, yah ek hit ban gaya aur kanekshan ke lie jeevan shailee ko dhaala.
us samay, kitaaben aur kaagaz-patr hee meediya the. vartamaan mein filmen aapakee bhaavanaon ka laabh uthaane ke lie aapako vividh prakaar ke drshy aur sangeet pradaan kar sakatee hain. vyakti kisee cheez ka nirmaan karane ke lie milane ke bajaay, philm dekhate samay anubhav hone vaalee moorkhata, oorja aur bhaavanaon ko praapt karane ke lie milate hain. vah koee rishta nahin hai.
kul milaakar, meediya ne vyaktiyon ko yah samajhane se vichalit kar diya ki kanekshan ko kaam karane ke lie kya majaboor karata hai. kaam kisee aise vyakti ko dhoondhana hai jo aapake lie upayukt ho. aajakal mahilaon ko sphoortidaayak khajoor kee jaroorat hotee hai. vah saaree moorkhata aur utsaah aapako us vyakti ko jaanane se rokata hai. jab aapakee shaadee ho jaatee hai, to aap seekhate hain ki aap us vyakti ke bina kaam kar sakate hain. jaahir hai aap aisa nahin karate. aap donon vyavahaary nahin hain. kisee aur ke saath holeevud moshan pikchars banaane ka prayaas karana chhod den. unhen jaanen.
meree naee kitaab dekhen, yahaan vah kaaran bataaya gaya hai jisase aap prabhaav ko traik nahin kar sakate. aap ve cheejen seekhenge jinake baare mein aapako bilkul bhee jaanakaaree nahin thee. aap paenge ki aap apane kanekshan ko kaise nukasaan pahunchaate hain. phir, us samay, main ek achchha rishta nahin, balki ek asaadhaaran rishta banaane ke lie yuktiyaan deta hoon. ek avishvasaneey.
aap ephabee, aaeejee, yootyoob aur kanekted in ke neeche ya us par ek kanekshan traik karenge.
main nambar 12 ke saath vaapas aaoonga. aap mein se kuchh log vaastav mein nambar 12 kee paravaah nahin karenge